Good questions

* What is hurting or frustrating me the most right now?

* What part of your life is not the way you want it to be?

* Why are you continuing to allow this circumstance to continue in a way that is causing you frustration and anxiety?

* Why have you not decided to act yet?

* When will you decide to act?

* Why not now?

* What other excuses are you making to keep from making progress?

* Why are you making excuses when all you need to do is acknowledge that you have failed to act, decide to act, and take a step forward?